Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Mysterious ways of the Souls:


Souls have their own subtle and mysterious ways to communicate with the would-be mother. Sometimes, it has also been observed that the fetus changes the likes and dislikes of its would-be mother to such an extent that it becomes difficult to believe, even for the mother herself. The vegetarian mothers preferring non-vegetarian food or vice versa has also been observed in a few cases.
 In this regard, I would like to share an incident with you that happened some seven years ago. One of my clients who was also a student in my parenting classes (Post-conception Classes), narrated this incident to me. She was a person who was ‘hard- wired’ to think negative. Earlier, even before she would put her feet onto the floor in the morning, she would think twice—shall I come out of the bed, shall I not? And then thinking something bad may happen to her, she would lie down for some more time. While cooking, she would think, “What would happen if the dish doesn’t turn out well, or if I get my fingers burned?” and likes.
When she came to see me for the first time, she asked me a question, “Tell me madam, do you think you will be able to help me out with this? I mean, I’m too much into negative thinking all the time.” Frankly speaking, I too had a very tough time dealing with her. But after two months of rigorous brainwashing, she started showing some positive signs of change.
When she conceived, she would still think of all wrong things for her baby. Her ‘what ifs, and how ifs’ were really troubling me. Before and after every session of Spiritual Counseling, and parenting class, I would pray to the Lord to please bless her with some positive thoughts. I think my prayers worked! And the soul in her womb changed her total way of thinking. One fine day she called me early in the morning, and said in a very chirpy tone, “Good morning ma’m; I am very happy today. I think you did a good job by changing my thought process. I am indebted to you.” I just said thanks a lot (to the soul that converted her thought pattern from a very negative to a very positive one); and since then she is a positive person. Her daughter is in first grade now, and is so very positive about everything that even her parents fear of saying something negative in front of her!
This is a miracle; and such miracles happen with all of us. The thing is that we don’t realize this very fact.
Souls help the expectant mothers in myriad of ways. Like a mother would talk to the baby inside the womb, the soul too talks to its mother by giving out various signs of liking, not liking a particular food, smell, color, people around her, and in many subtle ways.
The soul cries if the mother is not happy, it feels insulted when the mother talks something bad about it, it feels insecure when the husband and wife fight, and it gets stressed when the mother is stressed.
Therefore, be careful of everything; not only of your thoughts, but also of your intent, speech, and actions. A Soul is a mysterious power. It is all positive in nature. But the purpose for what it is incarnating decides its overall character!

Monday, August 6, 2012

LIfe Skills Lessons at Spiritual Konnect--Part One Enhancing Relationships

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What to talk to the fetus


Today, I would like to discuss about what to talk to the baby inside.
As I had written earlier also that even though medical science says that the fetus can listen to the outer voices after seventh month or so; spirituality believes that the fetus can hear mother’s words and feel her emotions too. Whenever you are eating something, talk to your baby that you are eating so and so. It is healthy, and you would love it. This is sweet/sour/salty or whatever. And that the baby would love its taste.
The food the mother eats breaks down obviously as the process of digestion begins. And the baby doesn’t get anything in the same form as the mother ate. But, this gives you an opportunity to talk to your child.
When you are doing some household chores, tell the baby that you are doing… (tell the chore). Share your childhood days. Tell stories about your schools, family etc. During your office meetings, tell your child to go to sleep as you will be busy in the meeting. You can talk anything and everything to your child.
I generally recommend would-be mother’s not to talk of any relationships with the baby in the womb. It has been observed that the children, whose mothers talked a lot about her relationships with others, have the same kind of feeling toward that person, and in most cases such feelings were not very encouraging.
What’s the hurry? The baby is in the womb for a period of nine months. Why to feed something that is really not of any importance to the child? Let the child come out. Let him or her bond with the relatives. Let him or her make his or her own opinion about the people around him or her. Never feed the poison to your child. Talk of good things, feed positive thoughts; and refrain from giving any negative talk.
Quite a few very enthusiastic would-be parents ask me that they want to teach the unborn baby alphabets, numbers etc. I suggest that it is too early for the child to do that. This is the only time when your child is away from the alphabets and number. Let him/her enjoy, let him/her play, let him/her be him/herself. Once he/she is out, there is no go for him or her. Do not feed more than he/she can handle.
You may sing nice, loving songs to your child. You may put soothing music during the day. Some chants, religious, classical music CDs, or guided meditation CDs. All these vibrations enter the womb, and make the baby feel good.
Refrain from talking bad about someone, any disheartening incidents, hurt you received from someone. Just be yourself, be happy. Enjoy each and every moment of your pregnancy.